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Patience is too often in short supply!!  I have to admit that this is a virtue which I don’t have an abundance of and on a bad day I never seem to have enough. Perhaps you too have been feeling that the number of situations that demand patience of you seem to be on the increase. A typical day seems to present numerous occasions that call upon one’s patience – telephone calls to arrange service which land one in ‘call center hell’, the clock ticking as you wait patiently in hopes of speaking to a human being before the phone/computer cuts you off. Worse yet when you do get cut off and have to repeat your entire litany again before you are inevitably told “now hold on while I transfer you to the person who can help you with that”!!! And [...]

Let’s be honest, holding on through dark and troubled times can be incredibly difficult. The last time I felt besieged by the weight of life and its predictable disappointments, positive thoughts floated off like clouds on the distant horizon – recognizable but beyond reach. Each time I got close to holding on to one, it slipped out of my grasp. Comfort beyond my reach and so I wallowed in sadness fighting off despair; both incredibly heavy burdens compounding the original malaise. And then, as if the weight I was trying to lift off my heart wasn’t heavy enough – guilt set in like the early morning fog; guilt because I was allowing myself both the time and the room for self-pity, guilt because I was wallowing. In a recent bout of melancholy in what one might call a flash of grandiosity, [...]

EXPERIENCE I am frequently asked by students and clients “what is the purpose of life”, my answer in a word – EXPERIENCE. Pir-O-Murshid Hazrat Inayat Khan in a Bowl of Saki expresses this more eloquently, “life is an opportunity given to satisfy the hunger and thirst of the soul”. Often this answer is followed by a barrage of questions, some that cannot be answered except by the mystics and masters who have transcended the limitations of material existence. But what are the rest of us to do as we seek to make sense of the struggle, disappointment and seeming insanity of everyday life? One view holds that we recognize the illusory nature of life in the ‘earth school’, viewing our lives and life around us as a theatrical play – Lila in the Hindu tradition. I must admit that I intellectually [...]

Ljubljana Love Between Lives  ~ this blog was posted by my colleague and fellow Newton Institute Life Between Lives facilitator Marcus Sorensen following his trip to Ljubljana, Slovenia to conduct hypnotic regression sessions. It is fabulous and captures the incredible experience of a Life Between Lives session. For additional posts by Marcus, follow him at http://www.marcustravels.net If you would like to schedule a Life Between Lives hypnotherapy session, please call Joanne at 410.371.7950.[separator top="40" style="shadow"] “It is dark and almost completely quiet… In this haven of peace, two hearts are pounding loudly, and one of them is mine. The young athletic man stretched out on the bed has his eyes closed, and I notice a tear rolling down one of his cheeks. A compassionate sigh rises and falls in my chest, and I sink a little further down into the armchair [...]

During Susan Driscoll’s most recent channeling of Martin and Company at Soul Source Martin reminded us that “all wisdom is birthed in silence.” He went on to say “all sacredness is shrouded in silence”, a phenomena experienced by those who visit holy sites. Most importantly, Martin reminded us that it is in the silence that we are directly connected to and flow with SOURCE -- small statements conveying profound truths. People who chide me about the frantic pace that sometimes characterizes my days might be surprised to learn how addicted I am to silence and how much silence I need to preserve my equanimity. In fact I crave silence the way I crave the foods that I fancy; actually I think I crave silence more. I used to think my need for silence was merely the antidote to over scheduled days. [...]

[vimeo id="22439234" width="600" height="350"]For the longest time I couldn't utter the word God, even silently. Not because I thought God was dead as some headlines clamored nor because God had failed to live up to false hopes or expectations that I wrongly conceived. No, it was because my sense of God was much bigger, much grander than the bearded, throne occupying figure that my early religious upbringing had left me imaging. This characterization of God – a being having a human-like identity can lead one down a slippery slope. It’s a natural progression to go from a child offering prayers to a ‘heavenly Father’ to an adult beseeching God for special interventions. Sadly, the oversimplification of a more complex reality leaves many blaming God when tragedy strikes and the world goes to hell, leading far too many away from the love [...]

This is Independence Day Weekend – the time when many of us pause from our all too busy lives to celebrate the nation’s independence and the freedom to exercise free will that it affords. In addition to the traditional markers – family picnics, parades, fireworks, weekends away at the beach, mountains or similarly restful and fun filled getaways, it is a time to ponder what freedom and free will mean in our lives. During my three decades in social welfare, half of which I spent working on behalf of homeless people, I became acutely aware of how high on a pedestal we have installed FREEDOM in our culture and national psyche. In the case of those homeless persons suffering serious mental illness, we have become acculturated to their right to choose outdoor living to more normalized living indoors. I don’t advocate [...]

Change – it’s inevitable! We are reminded by Eckhart Tolle that “Some changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in you life for something new to emerge.” I recognize this as truth, real wisdom, but I must admit there have been times when I was not thrilled with the changes that were unfolding. And I suspect that the same goes for almost everyone. It goes without saying that as life unfolds, change is ever present. Day changes to night. Spring ends and summer begins. School semesters start and wind down. We begin jobs and leave them; launch careers and then change them. We start relationships and some wane over time. Each of us ages, slowly at first or so it seems, but then years accumulate into decades and decades mount into lifetimes. [...]

[youtube id="IdcN4BRpmGI" width="600" height="350"] I guess it is no surprise given my age that so many people I know are caring for aging parents and other loved ones who are in the process of moving on – some might say getting ready to ‘cross over’ or ‘go home’. As many of us know this is often an incredibly challenging and painful time as we ready for the impending loss. For those of us who believe in reincarnation and past lives the emotion of imminent loss is partially mitigated by the knowledge that we will be reunited with loved ones and in some cases to start all over again in a future life. For those who don’t accept the notion of multiple lives or life after death, preparing for the loss of a loved one can be excruciating. Many are familiar with [...]

Someone recently asked "what does spring mean to you"; after a brief pause I answered it is the cycle of rebirth. And then I realized, perhaps because I am currently rereading Dr. Michael Newton's Journey of Souls, that the seasons mirror our own cycle of rebirth through time eternal. The nature lovers and gardeners amongst us are acutely aware of the annual cycle of planning, gestation, germination, birth, life, death, rejuvenation and fortification that our gardens experience. In general the process is quite similar to the one that frames our succession of lives. Here’s how. Most of the readers of this blog understand that at the very core each of us is energy - energy that transmutes when the body dies. This energy has consciousness. In fact, some say this energy is consciousness! Upon death our individual energy body is released [...]